How To Manifest Meaningful Friendships
Having trouble making friends? Maybe you need a little help from the law of attraction to attract and manifest lots of friends! You can manifest a friend group or even friendship with a specific person and become more popular.
Some people seem to be a magnet for friends. They attract friendships easily, but are you having a hard time finding good, meaningful friendships that last?
This manifestation method works. And, as long as you are focusing on good things, how could manifesting be bad? It’s worked for me in all aspects of my life, not just in manifesting friends, but also attracting love, weight loss, beauty, manifesting money and more! If you want it, it’s already on its way, you just have to get into character (or alignment as many spiritual leaders, like my favourite Gabby, call it).
How I Manifested Friends
Friendships are an important part of life. They help enrich our lives and can even improve your health (source).
In high school I had a good group of friends, but I got pregnant in grade 10 and had to drop out. After my daughter was born, rather than focusing on my social life, I was busy caring for my girl and going back to school because I had big dreams of being a writer:) I also began suffering from some social anxiety, which was really holding me back as far as making friends and having a social life.
I spent years studying, being a busy mom and then working as a news reporter. I had my hands full! I was happyish, but something was definitely missing.
I was so busy with MY life that I had pushed most of my old friends away and was left feeling lonely, with no real friends to talk to. I had to make a change. So, I manifested!
My favourite method is called scripting for manifesting. It’s an easy to use technique that involves one of my favourite things- writing. Scripting is journaling about what you want to manifest, but in present tense. I also love to use crystals for manifesting and manifestation mantras to attract more positive energy.
You write it all down in a manifestation journal, as if it’s already yours. Why? Because this helps you get into alignment (or get into character as I call it). You start to daydream about what you are manifesting, and you begin to really feel it. This is where the magic happens. When you feel excited and when you feel yourself receiving what you want, you raise your body’s vibration and are in the perfect place for attracting!
I had to learn how to become more social again and open to friendships.
I started to write details about the kind of friends I wanted and the types of fun things we would do. I got into detail and did this every day for 3 weeks, when suddenly I was introduced to a new friend! It was mind-blowing how much we had in common and we became FAST FRIENDS! I was full of gratitude.
How To Manifest Friends & A Social Life
Manifesting friends involves other people, which can be tricky. When manifesting a person, THEY MUST ALSO WANT WHAT YOU’RE OFFERING before they can give it to you!
It’s also very important to attract people who are aligned with you and your energy. That’s why it’s important to follow the manifestation steps below, in order for this to work.
Want to manifest friends? Here are 11 tips to help you manifest a whole friend group:
1. Be open to making new friends
If you are closed minded, it limits the universe’s ability to bring you what you want. So make sure that you are open to meeting new people and finding potential friends wherever you go.
2. Have a positive attitude about friendship
It may seem obvious, but some people have negative beliefs about friendship which puts up blocks in the universe preventing their desire for more friends from being manifested into reality.
For example, if someone believes that he is ‘not good enough’ to meet new people or that only certain types of people will be attracted towards him, then his limiting thoughts on friendship will prevent him from manifesting all kinds of wonderful friendships into his life. And so it is important to believe positively in friendship and to believe that you deserve to have good friends in your life.
3. Communicate with the universe
The law of attraction requires action on your part, so make sure that you are actively communicating what it is that you want to attract into your life. You can do this by making a vision board or list of all the qualities that you would like in your ideal friend(s).
It is important to know exactly what you are asking for! So be very clear about who it is that you want to meet, how they will behave towards you, what common interests you share, what type of person they are, etc.
4. Be open-minded
Again, being closed minded while trying to make friends will only prevent the universe from giving you what you want. This means being open to meeting people in all kinds of ways.
You never know when you might meet your ideal friend, so be willing to take every opportunity that comes by.
Perhaps one day an old childhood friend will return into your life or perhaps you will meet the perfect friend at the gym. The universe is trying to give you what you want, but opening up your options to receive help from the universe means that it can work faster for you!
5. Prepare yourself for when opportunities arise
There are many things that we can do which prepare us for when opportunities manifest themselves in front of us.
For example, if you were participating in a sporting activity where new people would actively participate too, then this would be conducive for bringing wonderful new friends into your life.
If you meet many people at the gym, then it would be beneficial to join classes that are focused on your interests. For example, joining yoga classes would make it easier for you to make new friends because you will all share similar interests!
6. Get involved in an activity club
If you want to attract more friends into your life, then one of the best things that you can do is to get involved in an activity club, group or fun hobby for women (or men), where like-minded people meet regularly and bond together over something they all enjoy doing.
The trick here is to choose activities which foster strong relationships (such as cooking or rock climbing) rather than activities which don’t necessarily require other people (like online gaming.)
7. Visualize yourself having more friends
Think about the ideal friend and visualize yourself having fun with them. Having trouble? Make a manifestation board with words, photos and inspiration to keep you motivated.
8. Use Manifestation Journaling
Write it all down, but in present tense. For example: “I am so grateful for my amazing friends.” “Me and my friends have so much fun at (whatever your favourite activities are).” ”My friends are always there for me when I need them.” These are very generic statements, and you can make them as detailed as you want. Give it a try and if at first the ideas don’t come to you, don’t worry… it gets easier as you go on!
9. Try Other Methods
There are many manifestation methods to try- 369 method, scripting, 555 method, 1111 method and more!
The manifestation process becomes more effective, the more energy you put into it.
10. Be your authentic self
When we are our true selves, we attract the people and circumstances that support our unique personalities. To manifest friends who really understand you, you must be able to share yourself with them without hiding or holding back.
This means being open about what it is that you like and dislike as well as what your personality quirks are – there is nothing more attractive than a person who is completely themselves! Always try to be this kind of person and soon enough the law of attraction will give you all kinds of wonderful friendships in return 🙂
11. Use affirmations
Positive affirmations help change your mindset and can work to raise your body’s vibe. When you feed your mind positivity, you will start to notice you’ll be attracting more amazing things into your life! Try it for yourself, read these affirmations for beauty, self love affirmations, affirmations for confidence, affirmations for money, morning affirmations, and positive affirmations for anxiety.
Wrapping Up: How To Manifest Friends
Manifesting meaningful friendships is possible but it takes time. Be patient and stay open to receiving new friends. The universe works in its own time, and when your manifestation involves other people it can be more complex, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t work!
You can manifest friends, or even friendship with a specific person and have a busy social life if you are in alignment with what you want to attract. It’s important to have a positive mindset about your social life, and also be open to new friends. Let go of past trauma and get involved in opportunities that could bring more friends into your life.