Letting Go Of Someone You Love Is Hard! Here Are Some Tips To Help You!
When a relationship that felt so real comes to an end, it’s truly painful. Your heart desperately clings to the hope that somehow, someway you can make it work with this person. But deep down, you know you’re holding on too tight to something that just isn’t meant to be. As hard as it is, letting go is the only way to open yourself up to the love you truly deserve.
You are worthy of love and if that isn’t coming from the relationship you are currently in or currently can’t seem to get over, than you need to move on.
I know – easier said than done. But trust that your soulmate is out there searching for you too. When the time is right, your paths will cross and it will feel effortless. Release the energy you’ve placed on this person so you are fully available for the magical love awaiting you. Honor what was, but say goodbye with compassion.
A new beginning blooms when you make space for it.
Just an FYI, your spirit guides are probably showing you signs that you may miss if you’re not paying attention. These signs usually show up as angel numbers like these sequences: angel number 2303, angel number 1009, angel number 303, angel number 600, angel number 115.
And these are a few that I personally see a lot: Angel number 0303, 0919 and 0404. Angel numbers 1202, 544, 444, and 3737 are also common.
There are even angel numbers manifesting, angel numbers for love and angel numbers for money!
Ok now back to getting over that person you’re stuck on…
How To Let Someone Go! How To Get Over Someone You Love
Start by acknowledging the deep connection you shared. Reflect fondly on your memories without putting this person on a pedestal. See them as a teacher who revealed what you need to feel cherished in a relationship. Then, shift your mindset away from fantasizing about “what could have been” to getting excited about “what will be” with your true soulmate. This relationship served its purpose, and now you are one step closer to your destiny.
Focus your energy on your own growth and self-care. You are whole and complete on your own. Rediscover passions that light you up. Spend time with loved ones who lift you higher. Explore new horizons. This empowers you to let go from a place of fullness rather than lack. Your joy and fulfillment comes from within. You are so loved, so valued, so supported. Any relationship should only add to your cup – never complete you.
Affirmations For Getting Over Someone
When painful memories resurface, use positive affirmations to stay centered in a abundant mindset:
“I am grateful for the lessons this relationship taught me.”
“I lovingly release the past to make room for new beginnings.”
“I attract healthy soulmate love with ease.”
“I accept that the relationship is over and am ready to move on.”
Manifestation Techniques To Get Over A Relationship
Employ manifestation techniques to energetically call in the love you desire:
Write detailed love letters to your future soulmate, describing your hopes, dreams and visions for a joyful life together. Try scripting for manifestation!
Create a vision board or manifestation board with images, quotes and words that represent your ideal partnership. Gaze at this each morning and night to crystallize this reality. Actively manifest your soulmate!
Bask in the feeling of being adored and cherished by your soulmate – imagine how blissful your future connection will be. Send these powerful high vibrations out to draw this love to you. If you’ve got your eye on someone, you could manifest your crush to like you back!
When the time is right, you will be surprised how organically you let go of who wasn’t meant for you. You have to trust the universe and the process. NOT try to control it! With clarity, you’ll see that this person was merely a guide to ready you for an even deeper connection – the ultimate gift.
A Few More Tips On How To Get Over A Break Up
Reflect on why it didn’t work. Spend some time thinking about why the relationship ultimately wasn’t successful. Be honest with yourself about any role you may have played. But also recognize that it likely wasn’t entirely your fault either. Some relationships just naturally reach their expiration date. This reflection will help you learn and grow.
How To Accept That A Relationship Is Over
Accept that it’s over. Once you see that the relationship has run its course, work on fully accepting that it’s time to move on. This doesn’t mean you have to demonize the other person. You can still care about them and have fond memories. But clinging to false hope will only bring more pain. Accept that it’s over.
Remove reminders. Having constant reminders of the person around will make it harder to move on. Put away gifts, photos, or mementos for now. Unfollow or unfriend them on social media. Removing those regular reminders can help you start thinking about other things.
Let yourself grieve. Ending a relationship requires a mourning period. Let yourself fully feel and process the sadness, anger, or hurt. Talk to supportive friends, journal about your feelings, or listen to cathartic music. Give yourself time and space to go through the stages of grief in your own way.
How Gratitude Can Help You Get Over Someone
Practice gratitude. While it may seem counter-intuitive, focusing on the gifts the relationship brought you can help with closure. Make a list of things you’re grateful for from the experience, from fond memories made to lessons learned. This can help you part on a positive note.
Fill your time. Ending a relationship leaves a void. Fill your schedule with meaningful activities and people who uplift you. Pursue neglected hobbies, make plans with friends, pick up an extra project at work. Staying busy and engaged will help the time pass smoothly.
Be patient with yourself. Recovering from heartbreak or disappointment takes time. Have compassion for yourself, and resist the urge to “get over it” overnight. Honor what you’re feeling each day, even the difficult emotions. With time and self-care, you’ll feel better and better.
How To Find Closure After A Break Up
Envision your new path. Once you’ve found closure, start looking forward. Envision the happier future that awaits now that you’ve let go of someone who wasn’t right. What goals do you want to pursue? What new people might you meet? The possibilities are exciting once you’re ready to move forward.
Surrender to this transition with faith that your soulmate is out there right now, preparing just like you are. Destiny will orchestrate your meeting when you are both fully in alignment with love’s highest vibration. This reunion is so close, closer than you can imagine. You will recognize your soulmate instantly, and it will feel like coming home.
So walk forward with courage. Listen to your inner wisdom – you deserve a love deeper than anything you’ve known. Your patience and trust will soon be rewarded. Have faith that each step brings you closer to a once-in-a-lifetime connection. Keep breathing through any lingering hurt until it naturally dissolves, and your heart feels born again.
You are ready to welcome a love beyond your wildest dreams. Letting go and opening up is an act of faith that the best is yet to come. Know at the core of your being that your soulmate is out there looking for you too. Soon your paths will meet, and two souls will become one. Get ready for the greatest love story ever told – yours.
